Hello, darling. Where were you last night?

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The ingredients for a perfect life? For many people, a happy marriage's on the top of the list. Sadly, every now and then we hear stories of broken homes, cheating husbands, and unfaithful wifes.

In this article, we see an example of cheating gone too far.

Carol is just another normal woman among millions in Singapore. Having a career, caring for her kids, loving her husband and doing household chores are all part and parcel of every woman's life.

But instead of living happily as a family, her husband decided that he needed a little thrill. He went on to marry a woman all the way in China and thinking that 2 woman isn't enough, continued to have another girlfriend in Singapore.

Can anyone say, horny guy?

I feel truly sorry for Carol. It must have been horrible, looking at videos of your husband having explicit sex with a woman you never knew existed. Sharing food with another woman is one thing, but sharing husband is another.

This cases of cheating your spouse is not uncommon. Every now and then, you hear of people divorcing. But divorcing because two people are not compatible is a lot different from having another marriage outside your marriage.

But the question remains: why are there so many cases of cheating husbands, and even cheating wifes?

I feel that it mostly lies with the moral values of the person. To go around sleeping with many women, and leave the one that truly cares for you at home, is unacceptable to many men. Almost all men knows that it is wrong to sleep with many women, but they still flirt around. Why? These men usually have little or no self control, and succumb easily to desires of the flesh.

But the fault does not always lie with the men. Sometimes, they find faults in the wifes. Being domineering, uncaring, grumpy all add on to the stress men handle in the work. How would it feel to have worked an entire day and coming home, only to share the rest of the night with someone resembling an angry elephant. Who likes that? These men finally turn to finding another women for something a little more exciting than sharing a bed with an angry elephant.

When a couple has been married for 5 years, it gets boring and their everyday life forms a mundane routine. No more sneaky presents on valentine's day, cuddly movies in a cinema on weekends, but just eat, sleep and work.

And everyone likes new stuff. And when the old gets boring, they find something new. And in this case, someone new to sleep with. To me, the thrill isn't worth the love and happiness in a perfect family.

I feel that a couple is meant to be married for life. Not 1 year, not 5 years, not 10 years, but for their entire life. From those cases we saw what can a moment of folly do to your family. When you only has a single, most important woman in your life, all of your attention, love, and care will go to her. Unlike when you have a different woman in your bed every night.

Show true love to those who really care about you today.